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Home » Nutrition » Basics » The Importance of Family Meals

The Importance of Family Meals

Feb 22, 2015 10 Comments

THE IMPORTANCE OF FAMILY MEALS @katieserbinskiThere is nothing like the tradition of sitting down to an Italian table. And nothing is more Italian than sitting around a table sharing a meal and stories about your day. Growing up in an Italian family, I have had the privilege to create many special memories with my family and friends around the dinner table. For me, the consistency and tradition of dinner with my family each week has left a lasting impression for me on the importance of family meals. Ask any of my childhood friends and they’ll say “yeah, the Caputo’s always ate dinner late!” There’s good reason for that. My parents wanted to make sure we always ate together as a family at the end of each day [whenever possible].

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Mom’s table setting for one BIG Italian family dinner.

 Sunday Dinner: THE Family Meal

What has me reflecting and a little emotional about family meals right now? It was the death of my Aunt Nina. “She’s with my parents, and every night is a Sunday dinner.” I heard my Dad echo these words multiple times over the past few weeks. We lost his sister- my Aunt Nina- Sunday, January 25th. She was a mother, grandmother, sister, cousin, and most importantly, a dear friend [especially to me]. There aren’t many memories of Sunday dinner that do not include my Aunt Nina. Her constant teasing and nagging my Dad, her “what’s the latest gossip, Katie?” questions, or just the honest interest she took in the day to day of my life- which more often than not included who I was “crushing on” or what I had done to get myself grounded that week. Sunday dinner has changed over the years. But one thing remains for my family: the tradition of getting together with family on Sunday for a meal together.

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I’m pretty sure her favorite holiday was Halloween—- she could dress up like the kids [pictured with me about 2 years old].
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Aunt Nina [and Uncle Ray] without the Halloween makeup. My high school graduation.

The Importance of Family Meals for Kids

Family meals are about much more than just eating food together. Long-standing research shows that enjoying more meals as a family offers numerous health benefits- physical, mental, and emotional- to children. The benefits of family mealtime go beyond what’s being served at the table. Eating and talking together can help children be happier, healthier, and more successful at school. This will hopefully make life easier for you, the parent. Now I’m not saying I was a straight A student and didn’t indulge on some not-so-healthy foods growing up, but the childhood memories I have of family dinner’s, specifically Sunday dinner, are irreplaceable.

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The Caputo Cousins set the standard for the importance of family meals. Well and my Mom who makes the best Sunday Dinner.
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If only dinner were like this every night. Except I wouldn’t want to do the dishes!

Our Family Meals Routine

When Joey was a baby it was hard for us to make dinner our family meal. His bedtime wasn’t very consistent and when we finally got him into a regular bedtime routine he went to bed much earlier than when we wanted to eat dinner. But we made it work— even if Joey had already eaten dinner he sat at the table with us! Or we’d make it a point to have breakfast or lunch together. Now that Joey is a toddler [oh and we have a baby] dinner is our most consistent meal together. Ted and I have made it a goal to aim for 4 family dinners each week, including weekends. Because of work schedules (and often missed naps which result in earlier bedtimes), every night isn’t feasible. Even if we aren’t eating dinner together, I make sure to sit and have a snack with Joey while he eats his dinner. And baby Anthony is always right there with us in his bouncy chair [if he’s awake].

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“Hey guys! I can still join in the mealtime fun. Just pull me up to the table!”

Whether it’s Sunday dinner, a Tuesday breakfast, or a Friday lunch, I encourage you to set aside time for at least one special meal each week with your family or a friend. One seems reasonable enough, right? And yes, that means TV off and cell phones away. You’re making memories that will last a lifetime- and continue beyond.

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Comments

  1. Elizabeth @ Enjoy Every Bite says

    February 23, 2015 at 10:24 am

    I love this post! Serving healthy dinners is of course a goal of mine, but I do think it’s most important just to be together gathered around the table! One of my church leaders once said “what your kids really want for dinner is you.” Totally agree!

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    • Katie says

      February 24, 2015 at 11:56 am

      I LOVE that!! So so true.

  2. Erin @ Mouthful says

    February 23, 2015 at 1:17 pm

    I love this Katie. The importance of eating together with family was instilled in my at a very young age. Sometimes it seemed near impossible…like when we have ball games 3 nights a week, practice every other night there wasn’t a game, and travel ball on the weekends! (I don’t know how my parents put up with all this!) But, after practice night, my mom would have dinner ready and we would all sit down together. Dad would ignore any work related calls and it was just us 🙂 I don’t think I realized just how important it was then as I do now, but those were some of our best memories 🙂 Thanks, mom and dad! 🙂

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    • Katie says

      February 24, 2015 at 11:57 am

      I couldn’t agree more Erin!! I remember eating dinner in my PJs because we waited for my Dad to get home. Add games to the mix and it’s crazy to think we didn’t eat out of mini vans lol!

  3. Kristy @ Chocolate Slopes says

    February 23, 2015 at 4:38 pm

    Great post! I agree family dinners are so important. I grew up having them regularly just wish my husband was home before bedtime more often to have them with us!

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    • Katie says

      February 24, 2015 at 11:57 am

      I agree Kristy!! Late work schedules make it so tough. We try to do breakfast together when that happens— easier said than done too lol!

  4. Bethany says

    February 23, 2015 at 8:38 pm

    I love this post! We haven’t really done sunday dinners since my grandma passed, but looking back those dinners are so important to me. Mat and I make it a point to have dinner together every night, even tho it’s a little stressful with keeping the boys in their seats and the food on the table. I tell myself it will pay off tho, and I know it will. 🙂

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    • Katie says

      February 24, 2015 at 11:58 am

      It will!!! You guys are doing such a good job. Setting a great example for the boys… Someone just told me “all your kids want for dinner is you.” 🙂 keep up the great work!!

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