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Home » Mom Life » Struggling with Stay-At-Home-Mom Isolation

Struggling with Stay-At-Home-Mom Isolation

Mar 22, 2020 3 Comments

Stay at home Mom isolation is real. I would also argue that motherhood in general can be isolating. There’s something about being surrounded by small people all day that might make a bystander think, “how could she possibly feel alone,” that is actually the most alone I’ve ever felt. NOW throw in the social distancing guidelines of the COVID-19 pandemic and BAM, talk about isolation-overload.

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Found this gem online. We can all use a little humor during this COVID-19 time!

Isolation is a scary place for a person like me. It’s a known fact among family, friends, and even those of you who read my blog that I’m an addict. And that my addiction really came to light when I became a Mom. No, my children did not cause my alcoholism. But what I can tell you is that I “stuffed” a lot of my feelings about loneliness, tiredness, baby-blues, etc. away with a drink or two or more. Now that we are required by the government to essentially stay inside unless we absolutely have to leave our houses, it’s even more important that I personally find ways to stay connected and NOT isolate.

Also found this gem online. A lot of my “use” was a result of not having control or feeling like I was losing control of my life. Here’s a great reminder if you’re ever in the same boat!

Social distancing. Lockdown. Hibernating. Staying home. Being a stay at home mom. Call it what you want to call it OR what it is at this moment in time, but here’s what’s working for ME to combat isolation:

Write a letter. And mail, email, or take a picture and text it if you can’t physically mail it. There’s something very therapeutic about writing a letter for me [perhaps it’s like journaling?!]. So, I’m putting a reminder in my calendar for Sunday nights to get out that pen, paper, and get to writing. My friend Catherine is doing the same with her preschooler Dan, so that’s on my list to try with the kids this upcoming week. NOTICE I said TRY. We are trying lots of things around here to see what works before adding to a consistent schedule.  

If I’m being honest, when the weather’s nice we aren’t writing letters. We are playing outside. With our non-germ-carrying friends!

Download an app. Get your face to face contact applications like Marco Polo, Zoom, or FaceTime on the iPhone. There’s something about face to face contact that I crave. Need. WANT! Yes, even with 4 little people around me daily. While I’d like to think I can talk about anything with the quattro, it’s just not the same as chatting with an ADULT friend. The applications I mentioned are free, and I’ve been using them the past week for recovery and beyond.

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The boys have been doing this LEGO challenge with a few friends and we’ve been FaceTiming the results everyday!

Exercise. When it’s not raining, I’m walking with or without the kids. And if I have a ½ hour or hour to myself, I’m using YouTube for free workout videos, following a few of my favorite Instagram fitness experts for light-weight circuits, heck, I’m even just walking my stairs. Anything that gets my heartrate up and moving my muscles helps!

Turning off technology. Yep, I said it. And yep, it’s worked for me. Hiding alerts for text messages, setting specific times of day for checking email, Instagram, and Facebook, keeping structure and setting boundaries with the time I check-in. I think it all comes down to boundaries and productivity with my time. Oh, and mental health. That little thing right there… while there’s a lot of good I get from social media [I get to connect with YOU!], I can also compare and despair if I’m not in the right mindset or checking my phone too much.

Go back to basics. Think about what brought YOU joy before “adulting.” I.e. before you had to go to work, parent, adult as they say. Coloring. Painting. Reading. Board games. Card games. Movies. A game of pig or horse. Catch. The list goes on!

Basics for this Mom? Making homemade pizza. And trying to recruit one or two of the kiddos to help. Lily’s always game for helping me in the kitchen!
Manja manja my sweet Lily!

Prayer. You would think 12 years of Catholic school has given me all of the experience I need with prayer, but it’s something I’m consistently wondering if I’m doing it right. Lately I’ve been praying in the morning to ask God for the guidance throughout my day, and then at night thanking Him for keeping me sane and sober while parenting these little people. There’s obviously a lot more I pray for and am thankful for, but I find talking to God like a friend and having a conversation with Him is a lot less intimidating than a formal prayer format.

A little gratitude in prayer can go a LONG way <3

With a few years of stay-at-home-mommying under my belt, blogging has been a HUGE way to stay connected and grounded as a person, mother, and friend. I genuinely thank you for supporting this platform and reading alongside me! 

YOUR TURN!

How are you staying connected and less isolated right now? 

 

 

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  1. Rebecca Vargo says

    March 22, 2020 at 9:06 am

    I’m so proud of you, mama-friend!! We’ve been doing some similar things! I use Marco Polo (and will soon use Skype) with my friends. I’m trying to set up my mother with Skype, but her technology skills are…lacking. ? My husband set up his mom with Skype. I used Zoom for the first time with my women’s bible study.
    We’re blessed to be able to watch church online, which I will do this morning, and they grant us access to a wonderful platform called RightNow Media. It has SO many bible study’s that you could do with your family, friends, alone, or even with your kiddos. I’m doing devotionals with the littles every morning, and it’s amazing!
    I’ve, also, been in contact with my 3yo’s soon-to-be preschool teacher to find out what she will be implementing in class so I can use the same things at home for an easier transition. I’ve been sent some AMAZING resources for my 9yo, and she’s been able to get quite a bit of school work done every day.
    It’s trial and error. It’s knowing your audience. If the girls are playing great together one morning, I’m going to let them play. If they (or I) need more structure on a certain day, we try to hunker down a bit more in our school work. Some days? I wish I had a bigger pantry to hide inside. Try to pray everyday. Try to play everyday. Try to laugh everyday. Try every day.

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  2. Les says

    March 23, 2020 at 9:52 am

    Thank you, this was just what I needed to hear this morning. I am sending it to my sister, too!

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  3. Andrea Williams says

    March 24, 2020 at 10:45 am

    Thank you so much for sharing! As a fellow RD and CDE, I truly appreciate your newsletter for the tips to share with my patients. Know that I’m another person praying for you!

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