At the end of each week, I usually go through my iPhone to see what I’ve taken pictures of, what pictures need to be deleted (selfies) and what pictures need to be saved and printed. This week’s photos had a definite theme: support. Specifically support from family and friends during a very trying 30 weeks of my second pregnancy….
So here’s the scoop: For the past week, I have been having lower pelvic pain- most noticeable when walking > 1/4 mile. I was also feeling the same pelvic pain whenever I bent over to clean, carry Joey, or do whatever else needed to be done while hunchback. My doctor advised me to come in for a checkup, which turned into a few hours of stress tests and an ultrasound— happening over a span of two days. The real kicker? Ted was out of town for work! As much as I appreciated his listening ear and calming words via phone and text, we both knew I needed some help. In came the reinforcements…
Each one of these ladies (and boy) has played a major role in supporting myself, Ted, and/or Joey during this pregnancy (and actually during Joey’s too!). From babysitting Joey to listening to my fears (or bloopers) in the doctor’s office, there’s nothing like a having a girlfriend you can count on! There’s a few more that have been instrumental this week—> one being co-founder and friend, Nuny, over at Foodie Babies! Our daily texts more often than not get me through the day!
One of those lovely ladies also sent me a piece of homemade carrot cake. YUM! She sure knows me and baby #2. Loving all things sugar and spice…
As much as I miss our life in California (friends, food, and jobs), I can’t imagine raising Joey without the support of my immediate family (and extended- thanks to technology and travel!). After the doctor visits, my parents suggested that Joey and I take a break from reality and stay with them for a few days at their cottage. Joey was able to spend some quality time with Nana and Grandpa while Mom was able to put her feet up— and spend some QT with them too! I cherish the memories I have with my Grandparents and I know our boys will feel the same with all 4 of theirs.
One thing I’ve learned as a Mom of one and soon to be two is that Mom’s are sometimes plagued with the “we can do it all” curse. But when you are tired and sore and a little human being is depending on you for EVERYTHING, sometimes taking help from family and friends can give you the re-boot your Mommy tank needs to REALLY feel invincible. Even if you do not live near family or friends and are expecting a little one or taking care of a few already, you can still feel this same love and support from other social circles: coworkers, neighbors, fellow church parishioners. Just don’t forget to say “yes” when the opportunity for help arises. You can’t do it all! And you’ll likely be offering that same helping hand when their time comes.
Aw, I’m glad you had a bit of rest with your parents!
oh girl, i feel ya on the pelvic pain!!! hope it eases up for ya. i’ve been trying to convey mine to hubby but i just don’t think he really gets it
I hope everything is OK for you and your pregnancy. When I was pregnant for Sara and working full time,I told my Dr that I was feeling fine but surprised at how tired I got. He just said with a straight face “if you are tired take a nap”! So, just remember that you are pregnant and a mom already, so that is enough to do. You don’t need to do more. Love you, Aunt Mary
Ugh, the pelvic pain! Mine was terrible too. Just parking too far from the grocery store or restaurant was dreadful! Hang in there. Thank goodness for support. I wouldn’t have been able to do it (at least not nearly as well) without my family.